Welcome to Fetlife! Women, please understand you have just lost your freedom to sexually express yourself!

Huh Ren? You lost ya mind there? FL is crammed with women expressing themsleves sexually. Oh yes; that is very true. One cannot argue with that. But at what cost? I would like to draw every females’ attention to the hidden FetLife clause in its TOU which explicitly states; “By agreeing to these TOU you… Read More Welcome to Fetlife! Women, please understand you have just lost your freedom to sexually express yourself!

Dom Training; A Field Guide for the Experienced Female Submissive.

I’ve been fortunate enough to experience this dynamic a couple of times in my role as a submissive. They were certainly challenging relationships but they were also very lovely and very special to me in often unique ways. There is nothing like the feeling of showing someone new your world; explaining the great joy that… Read More Dom Training; A Field Guide for the Experienced Female Submissive.

Sadism vs Masochism: Call for thoughts!

Hi folks So I am wrestling with this whole concept in a chapter for my book that I am writing at the moment. Essentially it is this; Sexual masochists Class I: Bothered by, but not seeking out, fantasies. May be preponderantly sadists with minimal masochistic tendencies or non-sadomasochistic with minimal masochistic tendencies Class II: Equal… Read More Sadism vs Masochism: Call for thoughts!