Huh Ren? You lost ya mind there? FL is crammed with women expressing themsleves sexually. Oh yes; that is very true. One cannot argue with that. But at what cost? I would like to draw every females’ attention to the hidden FetLife clause in its TOU which explicitly states; “By agreeing to these TOU you… Read More Welcome to Fetlife! Women, please understand you have just lost your freedom to sexually express yourself!
The path to a D/s relationship can be full of pitfalls for the unwary. Following on from my article on top tens, here are a few more to get you having a think. 1) Find a submissive support network in the local (real life) community. This is especially good advice even if you are an… Read More More Top 10 Recommendations for New Submissives
I received a lovely couple of reviews (thank you!) from Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk about my book, The Diary of an English Submissive. It is about my journey into Kink and BDSM and the many pitfalls I have encountered on the way. Previously only available on the Kindle platform, it has now been submitted to Amazon so that… Read More Reviews of The Diary of an English Submissive.
“I am an Alpha; a sexually orientated service submissive was strong primal tendencies. I am looking for an experienced, older Dom/Master who is preferably lifestyle.” Should be reasonably straightforward right? Well no. My search for my Dom has become long and interesting. I started searching first on here. But I found that (unsurprisingly) men don’t… Read More Why Vanilla Will Never Be My Favourite Flavour
Originally first posted to Fetlife. Here are some of my musings on the newly submissive. 1 – Submission is not a gift. 2 – But the dominant must treat it as if it was as priceless as rubies. 3 – Submission happens by degree. The wise sub will learn her limits to prevent emotional abuse,… Read More Top ten recommendations for new subs.
Recently I was reminded of something that happened to me a little over a year ago. At the heart of any D/s relationship must be a core of absolute trust. This of course must go both ways but I’d like to focus on the trust that the submissive places in the Dominant. That as part… Read More The Dark-side of Power Exchange; Vulnerability & Sub-drop